Frequently asked questions

A celebration without a church and without an authority, written anew for your occasion. Place, language, length and rituals belong to you. At its centre is your story, not a fixed liturgy.

No. There are no requirements for my ceremonies. What matters most is a good feeling and that everything in the ceremony means something to you.

In German, English, Spanish, Dutch and Italian, also mixed for families from several countries.

Wherever feels right for you: by the lake, in the garden, in a barn, in the forest or on a mountain. I live in Bern. Tell me where you would like to celebrate, and we will sort out the travel.

No. Only the civil wedding at the civil registry office is legally valid. The wedding ceremony takes place afterwards and is the moment you say yes in front of your people.

Usually around half an hour to three quarters of an hour. We decide the exact length together.

Yes, I would love that. I don't only ask you what your dream wedding looks like, but also what you have to say to each other.

In conversations and with my questions, which you both answer. Some are serious, others playful, for example: If you were a potato, how would you like to be cooked? That is how I hear your humour and find words that sound like you.

Yes. They can place wishes in stones, bring the rings to the front or promise to accompany you. We look together at which rituals suit you.

No. It is not a baptism and has no legal effect. It is an independent celebration in which your child is welcomed by the closest circle.

Yes. If you have important people at your child's side, they get their place in the ceremony.

Yes. A funeral service is not tied to a church. The rules for cemetery and rooms are set by the municipality. I am happy to coordinate the ceremony with them and the funeral home.

Ideally get in touch by phone or WhatsApp, then we can see straight away what is possible. The ceremony does not have to take place at the same time as the burial.

Yes. A person's small quirks are part of their life. When everyone laughs about the same story, they are back for a moment. Grief and humour are not mutually exclusive.

Yes, also in dialect. Family and friends can tell their own stories, read something or have their words read by someone else. Music or a shared ritual can carry us in between.

Three days outside the familiar, accompanied 1:1, with hiking, breathwork, bodywork, fire, sound and yoga.

No. It is personal guidance at a turning point and does not replace therapeutic or medical treatment.

In the Swiss mountains, from June to October. We choose the place together, for example Val Fex in the Engadine, the Riederfurka by the Aletsch glacier or the Faulhorn in the Bernese Oberland. You have your own room, accommodation and meals are paid separately.

Every ceremony is written individually. That is why you receive a written quote after the first conversation. Answers are free.

You write to me via the form, on WhatsApp or give me a call. Then we talk and you find out whether it fits. Only after that comes the quote.